Frequently Asked Questions


What is couples group counseling?

Couples group counseling involves 2-6 couples meeting each week with a trained counselor for 1.5 hours.  Session length (number of weeks) varies depending on the issue(s) each couple wants to work on, making this an open group (new members may come in at any time).  Group members talk about a variety of issues such as financial concerns, communication problems, disagreements, trust issues, intimacy and level of closeness, and roles in a marriage to name just a few.  Group members share information about themselves and/or their relationship and provide feedback for other members while the counselor facilitates the group by maintaining a healthy direction and productive communication within the group.

How do I know if group counseling is for me?

Group counseling can help you see the way you interact with others and learn from them in a safe environment.  While some issues are more effectively treated in an individual session, some couples benefit from the additional support and help of other couples who are facing similar issues in their marriage.  Group counseling also is helpful for those couples that would like some encouragement as they implement what they have already learned in individual counseling.

What will be expected of me in group counseling?

It is important to let the group know why you are seeking help and what you would like to learn from the experience.  Remember, this is a safe and supportive place for you to share feelings and ideas so that your marriage relationship can become stronger and healthier.  Specifically, everyone is expected to:

  • Participate actively
  • Commit to be open with the group members, as you feel comfortable
  • Be honest
  • Express your goal(s)
  • Be on time
  • Give and receive feedback
  • Have patience and listen to others when they are sharing
  • Find ways to work on your issues between sessions

  • Protect each other's confidentiality

    Additional expectations:

  • Please let your counselor(s) know if you are going to miss a session
  • If you decide the group is not meeting your needs, please discuss your concerns with your counselor instead of simply not attending the sessions
  • It is your responsibility to share your reason(s) for attending group and to let the other members know what you expect to get out of group
  • You are expected to protect the confidentiality of the group by not revealing the names of members or what is said outside of the group.  Doing so will result in immediate dismissal
  • Please respect the group's time by being on time.  We will begin promptly
  • Welcome new members with encouragement and support
  • Respect the feelings of others by listening and not talking while others are talking
  • When conflict arises between members of the group, we will calmly work through the issue rather than become physically or emotionally abusive